I saw two teenagers on the BBC the other morning, they have both had serious weight problems and lost the weight at The Carnegi camp in Leeds. In the interview they were each asked how they had managed to continue their diet exercise and weight loss after the camp and how they kept motivated, they both mentioned the support they get from their families and friends and the continuing support of the camp.
During the camp they obviously had their diet, exercise and weight loss all planned out for them and had all the encouragement and support that they needed. The real key point is that they had to go home at some point and find a way to keep motivated.
It didn’t just happen by accident that they received plenty of support with their diet, exercise and weight loss, the coordinators of the course involved the families, kept them informed and told them what kind of support would be needed when the teenagers returned home. There was also a program in place for the course staff to follow up after the course and give support.
People like to help and give encouragement, but sometimes our friends and family don’t want to risk saying the wrong thing, especially when it comes to weight and body size/shape. We need to give them our permission to help. In fact ask for help.
If you want to keep the success of your diet, exercise and weight loss efforts going, seek out the right kind of people from within your family, friends and colleagues, to help you. A friend or group at work all working toward similar goals can encourage each other and share tips and experience. Tell someone who you really respect and care about what they think of you, what your goals are, ask for their encouragement and support, you won’t want to let this person down.
I know that if I tell my mother-in-law what my goals are, she will ask me every time she sees me how I am getting on, and shouldn’t I have reached this stage by now. It’s a little light hearted game we play, as if she is willing me to fail, but it really keeps me on my toes, and we both know that it really helps and keeps me focused.
I remember when I was a teenager and my mum told us she was trying to stop smoking because it was bad for her. She knew that she would never have any peace if she started smoking again once the three of us kids heard that. It worked she never has smoked again.
Look at the people around you are there people who could support you with your diet, exercise and weight loss? Are there people you could support with theirs? Could you form a group of friends and help each other?
Are there any other tips that you use to keep motivated? let us know.